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by kittoo
Sat Dec 08, 2018 5:02 am
Forum: Archive
Topic: The Great Indian Political Drama - 3 (Oct 2018 - )
Replies: 3128
Views: 4080709

Re: The Great Indian Political Drama - 3 (Oct 2018 - )

My family members were on duty during Rajasthan elections. BJP is not going to win this one and the main reason is the Hindu apathy. They reported that while Muslim areas had a voting percentage of more than 75%, Hindu areas barely touched 60%. That is a difference of 15%. Taking population ratios, ...
by kittoo
Fri Jun 08, 2018 4:16 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

To those who mightve followed my story. Its been around 20 days since last talk. I am much better now. Of course I still think about it more or less 24x7 but mostly my mood is OK, with occasional bouts of sadness. Hopefully things will be better going forward. I tried meeting other girls but cancell...
by kittoo
Sat May 26, 2018 12:47 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

Kittoo ji, nobody can know the probability of her coming back to you next day/ week / month or year. However, if you keep going back on your word everytime, it is the value of your word & zabaan that will suffer. You can't keep threatening her 'I'll move on, I'm moving on' and then not do so. If sh...
by kittoo
Sat May 26, 2018 7:50 am
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

Women get an ego boost when they have a man waiting on their every word breathlessly. In other words, women love to F with men's minds. Yes, it is nice to do that as part of the courting ritual to impress her, but when it becomes clear that you are just a dog on a leash that is when you disengage y...
by kittoo
Sun May 13, 2018 6:15 am
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

Thanks Ashish sir but turns out life is a very cruel mistress. As I wrote on my last post, finally she was positive and I was also happy and looking forward to meeting her family. But the very next day she was again completely disinterested and ignoring my msgs. So I asked if everything was OK she a...
by kittoo
Sat May 12, 2018 10:37 am
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

Before I post, wanted to thank all of you for guiding me. It has really helped. Thank you to Chandragupta sir, KJo sir, bharotshontan sir, Vikas sir, Sachin sir, Rsingh sir and anyone whom I mightve missed. We did talk yesterday, again. So it has been 2 continuous days of talking- after a very long ...
by kittoo
Fri May 11, 2018 9:38 am
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

We talked yesterday. Apparently her mother has been very sick and hence she couldn't meet any astrologer or do anything. I have been living in hell and she didn't even inform me that she wasn't doing anything. Now she is saying she will do all this after one week. So 15 more days if hell. The only d...
by kittoo
Tue May 08, 2018 7:49 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

Unfortunately this limbo state is because you don't have closure. And it will continue until you resolve the situation. I think you have no option but to wait. Give her enough time to come to a decision at her end, then you can move forward or break things off and move on to next phase of life. Sir...
by kittoo
Tue May 08, 2018 6:24 am
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

Its been 12 days since we last talked. Its been really really tough, but I am hanging there. slowly it has become easier. She said it will take her 15-20 (and even 25 days at one point) to sort the kundli and family thing at her end. I dont know what result she will come with either- positive or neg...
by kittoo
Sun Apr 29, 2018 2:21 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

Mort, Rsingh and vikas saar, thanks for your replies. As far as her uncovering something about me, I will answer after this little update. Last week Friday, we had a long call in which she truly seemed frustrated about the situation. Her mom has been staying with het since past 3 weeks and I also wa...
by kittoo
Sat Apr 21, 2018 4:41 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

This is all nuts. I can't believe educated people are still accepting these soothsayers - generally it is only for guidance. The best thing for you is to tell her that the timing of your birth is wrong and the astrologer should use the correct date. Make it up man! If caste/community, morals, educa...
by kittoo
Sat Apr 21, 2018 1:52 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

I feel you should have done that in the last conversation itself but then hindsight is 20/20. None of us know what to say at the right time specially at such incidents where our minds & hearts are truly fvcked. Has she called you post your last conversation? If it has been 3 days and she hasn't cal...
by kittoo
Sat Apr 21, 2018 10:16 am
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

Gold. CG sir, what's your opinion on my last post (about we being 30 and starting from scratch and all?). Sir imho I have seen plenty of people who are a. clueless or b. willing to start from scratch even at the age of 30-32. It is an inconvenience ofcourse but then these issues are complex. We don...
by kittoo
Sat Apr 21, 2018 9:08 am
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

Chandragupta wrote:
Sat Apr 21, 2018 7:07 am
Gold.
CG sir, what's your opinion on my last post (about we being 30 and starting from scratch and all?).
by kittoo
Fri Apr 20, 2018 5:06 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

I think you did everything right except for leaving her decision open-ended with no timeline. What will you do if she calls you a year from now when you have gotten over her and she says she decided that you are the one? You may be single but do you want to go through that again? In the meantime yo...
by kittoo
Fri Apr 20, 2018 3:56 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

So coming to your situation, I think the mistake you made was to leave the ball in her court. She has the power now. You told her "if there is positive news call me or don't call". So she decides the future. She can call you tomorrow or in 2 years. She can call you as a backup. Being human, you wil...
by kittoo
Fri Apr 20, 2018 8:21 am
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

Imho, you did the best thing possible. You are still willing to marry her despite your life on the line, literally. But if she doesn't fight it, then are you willing to be with a woman who will leave you when the going gets tough? Now this may be a little OTT but are you sure that it is the astrolo...
by kittoo
Thu Apr 19, 2018 2:55 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

An update about my situation with my GFs in laws finding from an astrolger that I will die within 6 months if I get married to her and hence my relationship breaking over this stupidity. Detailed post here- https://bharatganrajya.com/viewtopic.php?p=10016#p10016 After a week (during which I was genu...
by kittoo
Fri Apr 13, 2018 4:05 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

I say forget about marriage for a while, and see how the destiny dice rolls. What does your parents say about this? Thats what I am doing now. Nothing, that is. Just waiting for things to fall here or there. My parents are worried too but I know I can get them around. Its she and her parents who ne...
by kittoo
Wed Apr 11, 2018 4:25 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: Love & Marriage Nukkad
Replies: 336
Views: 394553

Re: Love & Marriage Nukkad

Why is this thread so silent? Anywas need help and advice from gurus as this issue is tearing apart my life. Me and my gf have been in a relationship since 2 years and we love each other very much. With great difficulty we got her parents to at least start thinking of me as future son-in-law and all...
by kittoo
Sat Mar 24, 2018 8:57 pm
Forum: Archive
Topic: The Great Indian Political Drama - 1 (Oct 2017 - Mar 2018)
Replies: 4973
Views: 3617541

Re: The Great Indian Political Drama - Oct 2017

The Supreme Court is now delaying RJB verdict & going back to discuss & establish whether a mosque is integral to Islam (or something like that). Basically the argument is once a mosque always a mosque. I was surprised to see SC take up RJB but normal functioning is now prevailing. I don't think RJ...
by kittoo
Sat Mar 24, 2018 3:36 pm
Forum: Archive
Topic: The Great Indian Political Drama - 1 (Oct 2017 - Mar 2018)
Replies: 4973
Views: 3617541

Re: The Great Indian Political Drama - Oct 2017

It's very disheartening to see the hate for Hinduism and BJP/RSS in some of our lower caste brethren. I don't remember this being the case a couple of decades earlier but these days sometimes I see such hatred on my FB feed that boils my blood. And no matter how much I try to explain by facts, they ...
by kittoo
Mon Mar 19, 2018 2:34 pm
Forum: Archive
Topic: The Great Indian Political Drama - 1 (Oct 2017 - Mar 2018)
Replies: 4973
Views: 3617541

Re: The Great Indian Political Drama - Oct 2017

What a shame that even a prosperous and upper caste like Lingayaths (whose name literally contains Lord Shiva) want to be separate from Hinduism. Just a whiff of opportunity and we Hindus wither away like cards. What a shame that they played right into Congress' hands. We truly are doomed , with nar...
by kittoo
Thu Feb 01, 2018 2:56 pm
Forum: Archive
Topic: The Great Indian Political Drama - 1 (Oct 2017 - Mar 2018)
Replies: 4973
Views: 3617541

Re: The Great Indian Political Drama - Oct 2017

This is the right time to remove Vasundhara. BJP should not have made her CM in the first place. Meanwhile, BJP is now firmly the opposition in WB and I expect that to come true in 2018 panchayat elections. On one hand some tweeples are saying she made good roads and push to infra, where-as in my p...
by kittoo
Thu Feb 01, 2018 12:08 pm
Forum: Archive
Topic: The Great Indian Political Drama - 1 (Oct 2017 - Mar 2018)
Replies: 4973
Views: 3617541

Re: The Great Indian Political Drama - Oct 2017

Yashwant Deshmukh analysed the trends in these by-elections, and extrapolated to the whole of the state. Congress 139 and BJP 53 in a house of 200 would be the result. I have no idea why they keep making Vasundhara the CM. Such a sleeping queen. Anyway. Yupe, Rajasthan is totally lost, at least as ...